He doesn‘t call me every day…

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He doesn’t call me every day…

You guess he likes you, but of course you are not sure because you don’t understand his behavior. He shows interest, but then he disappears, and when you see him it’s like nothing happened, like if you would have seen him yesterday. If you call him, sorry, text him, he replies, but if you let two days go by without checking on him, he doesn’t contact you. His erratic and confusing behavior is driving you crazy; you need to know what is he feeling and what’s going on.

The options for trying to find out are endless; but if we strike out the psycho ones, we can narrow it down to a couple of them that could be considered politically correct ones. The most straight forward one, would be next time you are in front of him to prompt the question, face to face, without anesthesia. But unless you already gave him a heads up, it could turn into a little awkward situation, and him getting defensive and evasive. Consider that you might have been putting a lot of thought to his behavior, and even talked and discussed it with your girlfriends…

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About the Author: Demian writes daily a recap of his thoughts about things that happen in our lives. You’ll find subjects from parenting, to relationships and sex. The whole idea is to trigger some thinking about these subjects that sometimes are overlooked because we are running trying to get things accomplished. To learn more about Demian please visit byDemian.com

  • THIS IS JUST THE KIND OF GUY I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH…HE HAD ME BASICALLY CONFUSED AS HELL.. ONE MINUTE HE IS VERY ACTIVE CALLING ME ALOT THEN NEXT MINUTE IT GETS LESS ACTIVE BUT HE IS STILL THERE. YET HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME BUT THE REALATIONSHIP IS QUITE LIMTED CAUSE HE HAS SO MANY RESTRICTUNS. AT THE TIME I MET HIM HE WAS MARRIED AND HE MADE IT SEEMED THAT ALL WAS NOT WELL AS i AM AMRRIED TOO BUT ME AND MY HUBBY ARE NOT TOGETHER LIKE THAT EITHER..BUT THE TROUBLESOME FACTOR IS THAT I FEEL THAT HE HAS LIED TO ME AND IS NOT HIS INTENTION TO LEAVE AND THAT HIS MARRIAGE IS QUITE FINE..HE TELLS ME HE IS NOT WILLING TO SHARE ME BUT YET HE EXPECVTS ME TO SHARE HIM..I THINK THAT IS SO SLEFISH..I WAS QUITE OVERWHELMED OVER THE WEEKEND AND I TOLD HIM MY FEELINGS AND WE GOT INTO A BIG ARGUMENT AND NOW I AM HURTING. I KNOW IT SHOULD BE OVER BUT I HAVE FEEELINGS FOR HIM. HOW DO I GET OVER THIS..

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